Pairloom is a compatibility discovery tool. You play short question-based games solo or with someone else, and we use your answers to build a dimensional profile and compute compatibility scores. Pairloom is not a dating app — it works alongside whatever platform you already use to meet people.
Your name (or a nickname), email address, profile photo (from your sign-in provider), game answers, and any optional profile fields you choose to fill in (birthday, location, gender, relationship preferences).
Dimensional profile scores across six relationship dimensions, compatibility scores between you and your connections, and compatibility category breakdowns.
Your IP address (logged for abuse prevention).
Some game questions touch on intimacy, values, and relationship style. These answers are treated with extra care and are never shared with third parties.
Your profile is private by default. Compatibility scores are only visible to both players after they've both completed a session together. Your dimensional profile data is never shared with third parties.
We retain your data for as long as your account is active. When you delete your account, all your data is removed immediately. IP logs are retained for up to 90 days for abuse prevention and then automatically purged.
When you delete your account, the display name you chose to share with your connections will remain visible to them so they can identify who they played with. No game data, compatibility scores, or any other information will be visible. This is the only trace of your account that remains after deletion.
For any privacy questions, data requests, or concerns, reach out to us at privacy@pairloom.app
This policy is pending formal legal review. Last updated February 2026.